Thankfully, the parents of my original U10s team had earlier seen some potential in me and pointed me towards University. I passed in the top five per cent of my accounting class, got job offers from all the big firms and was a made a partner within eight years, spending 35 years in the profession.
But my day job never stopped me from volunteering, because I never grew tired of that good feeling it provided.
I joined the Board of Richmond AFL club in 2004, a voluntary position I held for 15 years. The smiles were the biggest reward, the struggling Tigers transformed into a premiership force.
In my early days I asked about how we supported young kids recruited to the club. I volunteered to be among the first host families for these young recruits, bringing in an 18-year-old rookie to our family home when my eldest son was 14.
He was supposed to stay six months, but he asked to stay on and became part of our family, contributing the household chores. He lived with us for five years, after which he bought his own home – just a couple of hundred metres from us. That young player was Jack Riewoldt, now a three-time premiership winner, three-time Coleman Medallist, a three-time All-Australian.
Connections from volunteering come in all forms.
When I was coaching at Camberwell Hockey Club there was a talented young kid who had to move out of Melbourne due to family circumstances. He was going to leave the club too, until I urged him to catch the train halfway, then I’d drive him and his brother the remaining 45 minutes to training.
Years later, as a successful business owner, he came by my office. He said he just wanted to thank me for changing his life when he was a 14-year-old without a dad.
This is what volunteering can bring, it can expand all aspects of life. I’ve coached my sons in cricket and athletics, but I’ve also volunteered in other areas to broaden my own perspectives.
I grew up thinking of art as squiggles on a page, but volunteered on the Board of the Victorian College of the Arts for 10 years to share a connection with my wife, who studied fine arts.
I was on the Board of the Centre of Hearing Impaired Children simply because I wanted to help. Years later, my nephew ended up with a hearing disability and I was able to support the family through that traumatic time.
Volunteering also helped in my professional career as head of recruiting at EY. In CVs I would look for those who were volunteers. These were people who cared about their own development and who cared about other people. You wanted these people on your team because they had a sense of pride and aspiration.
Volunteering has given me stronger family connections, professional networks, lifelong friends and skills I didn’t know I wanted or needed.
On behalf of Sport Australia, I thank all Australian sport volunteers, as coaches, officials, managers, administrators, board members and more.
For those who give your time so graciously, I hope these sporting experiences continue to give you so much more joy and fulfilment in return. We appreciate you and sport needs you.